Perhaps you were just too restrained? I wouldn’t have the guts to deal with something like that but you strike me as being a gutsy lady. She might still be a friend if you had trodden on her toes, so to speak? Best
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Bullying is everywhere. I don’t put up with it. I recently had a long term friend be utterly rude to me in front of a group of people at her place when I had called in to fix equipment at her specified time! ? I didn’t make a scene. Made polite excuse and left. Walked up the road and phoned husband to pick me up. I later told her I wasn’t speaking to her she needed to apologise. Some time has elapsed and I just got an email 90% of which was about her. She just hasn’t got it and just showed herself up.?
Very disappointing.?
Jude ? What is wrong there? Is it parents, teachers, or what? Children should not want to bully disabled or different people. Is there some kind of instinct? Best Susan This fits the psychological profile of offenders Jude. Usually, they start hurting animals, then they move on to hurting young children. Then they go on to women or disabled people. One of my friends at the local job club looked normal, when he was sat down. When he walked you could see he had cerebral palsy. If he didn't get back to his home before the schoolkids came home he would be victimised John
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You've helped me, you don't know how much.!! Wish I could fly down & help Jude & Peter, but the flight insurance would bankrupt me Hugs John
On Saturday, 3 April 2021, 10:16:25 BST, John Miller via groups.io <johnmiller051118@...> wrote:
This has been going on for centuries. Typically these people are cowards inside. They will only pick on weaker people or when they are in groups. Joseph Merrick had to wear a hood & he could barely walk. The kids picked on him. He was a devout Christian & despite no formal education made elaborate matchstick models of buildings
John
On Saturday, 3 April 2021, 08:55:43 BST, Judith Hall <glenidol@...> wrote:
When we were first in Australia ?there were three of us from the same family group in the same school. My eldest half brother was a rather chubby lad to put it mildly and was getting bullied at school. I wandered over in the playground one day when I saw the culprits in a group ?around him and I said “Ok and what are you lot up to then”... bit of shuffling amongst the little turds. “I said “Leave my brother alone do you ?hear me - or do you want me to go speak to your parents. I bet your mother would be none too pleased (pointing t them) ”….and as they were shuffling off I pointed to each of them and gave them the eye-see-you sign with the fingers and said in as menacing a tone as you’re ever likely to hear “And I know where you live”. :-) :-) Gave them the “she who must be obeyed attitude".
He never had trouble again, but I did overhear one of them telling another lad “Watch out for her she’s mean”. I was 11 at the time.?
:-) ?Jude
On 3 Apr 2021, at 4:23 pm, zuiko < ftog@...> wrote: Apology seems to be a dirty word for some groups of people. ?I remember telling my boss some time ago that I had apologised to a colleague for arguing with him; the response was, “Never apologise, it’s a sign of weakness.” ?Tommyrot!
Apologising, for me, is the only way for people and relationships to survive.
Chris Bullying is everywhere. I don’t put up with it. I recently had a long term friend be utterly rude to me in front of a group of people at her place when I had called in to fix equipment at her specified time! ? I didn’t make a scene. Made polite excuse and left. Walked up the road and phoned husband to pick me up. I later told her I wasn’t speaking to her she needed to apologise. Some time has elapsed and I just got an email 90% of which was about her. She just hasn’t got it and just showed herself up.?
Very disappointing.?
Jude
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This has been going on for centuries. Typically these people are cowards inside. They will only pick on weaker people or when they are in groups. Joseph Merrick had to wear a hood & he could barely walk. The kids picked on him. He was a devout Christian & despite no formal education made elaborate matchstick models of buildings
John
On Saturday, 3 April 2021, 08:55:43 BST, Judith Hall <glenidol@...> wrote:
When we were first in Australia ?there were three of us from the same family group in the same school. My eldest half brother was a rather chubby lad to put it mildly and was getting bullied at school. I wandered over in the playground one day when I saw the culprits in a group ?around him and I said “Ok and what are you lot up to then”... bit of shuffling amongst the little turds. “I said “Leave my brother alone do you ?hear me - or do you want me to go speak to your parents. I bet your mother would be none too pleased (pointing t them) ”….and as they were shuffling off I pointed to each of them and gave them the eye-see-you sign with the fingers and said in as menacing a tone as you’re ever likely to hear “And I know where you live”. :-) :-) Gave them the “she who must be obeyed attitude".
He never had trouble again, but I did overhear one of them telling another lad “Watch out for her she’s mean”. I was 11 at the time.?
:-) ?Jude
On 3 Apr 2021, at 4:23 pm, zuiko < ftog@...> wrote: Apology seems to be a dirty word for some groups of people. ?I remember telling my boss some time ago that I had apologised to a colleague for arguing with him; the response was, “Never apologise, it’s a sign of weakness.” ?Tommyrot!
Apologising, for me, is the only way for people and relationships to survive.
Chris Bullying is everywhere. I don’t put up with it. I recently had a long term friend be utterly rude to me in front of a group of people at her place when I had called in to fix equipment at her specified time! ? I didn’t make a scene. Made polite excuse and left. Walked up the road and phoned husband to pick me up. I later told her I wasn’t speaking to her she needed to apologise. Some time has elapsed and I just got an email 90% of which was about her. She just hasn’t got it and just showed herself up.?
Very disappointing.?
Jude
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When we were first in Australia ?there were three of us from the same family group in the same school. My eldest half brother was a rather chubby lad to put it mildly and was getting bullied at school. I wandered over in the playground one day when I saw the culprits in a group ?around him and I said “Ok and what are you lot up to then”... bit of shuffling amongst the little turds. “I said “Leave my brother alone do you ?hear me - or do you want me to go speak to your parents. I bet your mother would be none too pleased (pointing t them) ”….and as they were shuffling off I pointed to each of them and gave them the eye-see-you sign with the fingers and said in as menacing a tone as you’re ever likely to hear “And I know where you live”. :-) :-) Gave them the “she who must be obeyed attitude".
He never had trouble again, but I did overhear one of them telling another lad “Watch out for her she’s mean”. I was 11 at the time.?
:-) ?Jude
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On 3 Apr 2021, at 4:23 pm, zuiko < ftog@...> wrote: Apology seems to be a dirty word for some groups of people. ?I remember telling my boss some time ago that I had apologised to a colleague for arguing with him; the response was, “Never apologise, it’s a sign of weakness.” ?Tommyrot!
Apologising, for me, is the only way for people and relationships to survive.
Chris
Bullying is everywhere. I don’t put up with it. I recently had a long term friend be utterly rude to me in front of a group of people at her place when I had called in to fix equipment at her specified time! ? I didn’t make a scene. Made polite excuse and left. Walked up the road and phoned husband to pick me up. I later told her I wasn’t speaking to her she needed to apologise. Some time has elapsed and I just got an email 90% of which was about her. She just hasn’t got it and just showed herself up.?
Very disappointing.?
Jude
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Apology seems to be a dirty word for some groups of people. ?I remember telling my boss some time ago that I had apologised to a colleague for arguing with him; the response was, “Never apologise, it’s a sign of weakness.” ?Tommyrot!
Apologising, for me, is the only way for people and relationships to survive.
Chris
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Bullying is everywhere. I don’t put up with it. I recently had a long term friend be utterly rude to me in front of a group of people at her place when I had called in to fix equipment at her specified time! ? I didn’t make a scene. Made polite excuse and left. Walked up the road and phoned husband to pick me up. I later told her I wasn’t speaking to her she needed to apologise. Some time has elapsed and I just got an email 90% of which was about her. She just hasn’t got it and just showed herself up.?
Very disappointing.?
Jude
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Bullying is everywhere. I don’t put up with it. I recently had a long term friend be utterly rude to me in front of a group of people at her place when I had called in to fix equipment at her specified time! ? I didn’t make a scene. Made polite excuse and left. Walked up the road and phoned husband to pick me up. I later told her I wasn’t speaking to her she needed to apologise. Some time has elapsed and I just got an email 90% of which was about her. She just hasn’t got it and just showed herself up.?
Very disappointing.?
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On 3 Apr 2021, at 8:04 am, Purler <susan.platter@...> wrote:
? What is wrong there? Is it parents, teachers, or what? Children should not want to bully disabled or different people. Is there some kind of instinct? Best Susan This fits the psychological profile of offenders Jude. Usually, they start hurting animals, then they move on to hurting young children. Then they go on to women or disabled people. One of my friends at the local job club looked normal, when he was sat down. When he walked you could see he had cerebral palsy. If he didn't get back to his home before the schoolkids came home he would be victimised John
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Re: You must stretch out with your feelings! Use the Force Susie! It will always be with you!
Haha oh don’t worry about that, John, I’m sure I can hum it to myself! Actually, I have taken to whistling these days, not sure why. Perhaps it sounds better to me than my singing voice! ?:D Best Susan
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Tried to find the Star Wars theme to download to you, but alas! Hugs John Hope Harvey is good
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What is wrong there? Is it parents, teachers, or what? Children should not want to bully disabled or different people. Is there some kind of instinct? Best Susan
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This fits the psychological profile of offenders Jude. Usually, they start hurting animals, then they move on to hurting young children. Then they go on to women or disabled people. One of my friends at the local job club looked normal, when he was sat down. When he walked you could see he had cerebral palsy. If he didn't get back to his home before the schoolkids came home he would be victimised John
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That sounds excellent, Jude; I am so sorry your SIL had to experience it that way, though. Best
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My sister in law was hit by a car recently. She was lucky to maintain her feet and didn’t go under but though physically she didn’t initially show injuries she obviously had head trauma and memory problems and ptsd set in and getting very angry, or having panic attacks. Our solicitor is handling things and got her a good psychologist. Driver had criminal record. All on cctv. Police immediately helpful and booked a consult with a counsellor. Different system down here.
Jude ? It has always been a bit of a Cinderella, shamefully. Best Susan On 1 Apr 2021, at 08:07, zuiko < ftog@...> wrote: That is very disappointing, John. ?Mental Health provision doesn’t sound very good.
Chris
Sorry folks, but every interaction I've had with my local mental health hospital as made my mental health worse. I will not go there again
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You must stretch out with your feelings! Use the Force Susie! It will always be with you!
Tried to find the Star Wars theme to download to you, but alas! Hugs John Hope Harvey is good
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This fits the psychological profile of offenders Jude. Usually, they start hurting animals, then they move on to hurting young children. Then they go on to women or disabled people. One of my friends at the local job club looked normal, when he was sat down. When he walked you could see he had cerebral palsy. If he didn't get back to his home before the schoolkids came home he would be victimised John
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I agree, John. ?A great help and comfort.
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Jude you & Peter will be in my prayers. Sometimes I am a doubter & weak, but mostly I've found Christianity to be a help Hugs John
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Jude you & Peter will be in my prayers. Sometimes I am a doubter & weak, but mostly I've found Christianity to be a help Hugs John
On Thursday, 1 April 2021, 15:43:35 BST, Judith Hall <glenidol@...> wrote:
Hospital and surgeon’s staff are being super efficient on communication at least. Three day lockdown is off but masks next 14 days. Pete will have to chuck me out at the hospital entry- not allowed in - he’s not happy about that. But that’s the rules.?
On 2 Apr 2021, at 12:15 am, John Miller via groups.io <johnmiller051118@...> wrote:
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This is typical Jude. More often than not offenders have a track record of offending. Peter Sutcliffe, Aileen Wournos, Denis Nielson
Sorry to tell you this You are in my thoughts I'm sure the operation will go well. Hugs John
On Thursday, 1 April 2021, 12:08:46 BST, John Miller <johnmiller051118@...> wrote:
I'm deeply sorry to hear that Jude. Chris I received good treatment at Manchester's health unit, Bristol, Exeter & in the USA. There is just something deeply wrong with our local unit.
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Hospital and surgeon’s staff are being super efficient on communication at least. Three day lockdown is off but masks next 14 days. Pete will have to chuck me out at the hospital entry- not allowed in - he’s not happy about that. But that’s the rules.?
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Hospital and surgeon’s staff are being super efficient on communication at least. Three day lockdown is off but masks next 14 days. Pete will have to chuck me out at the hospital entry- not allowed in - he’s not happy about that. But that’s the rules.?
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On 2 Apr 2021, at 12:15 am, John Miller via groups.io <johnmiller051118@...> wrote:
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This is typical Jude. More often than not offenders have a track record of offending. Peter Sutcliffe, Aileen Wournos, Denis Nielson
Sorry to tell you this You are in my thoughts I'm sure the operation will go well. Hugs John
On Thursday, 1 April 2021, 12:08:46 BST, John Miller <johnmiller051118@...> wrote:
I'm deeply sorry to hear that Jude. Chris I received good treatment at Manchester's health unit, Bristol, Exeter & in the USA. There is just something deeply wrong with our local unit.
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This is typical Jude. More often than not offenders have a track record of offending. Peter Sutcliffe, Aileen Wournos, Denis Nielson
Sorry to tell you this You are in my thoughts I'm sure the operation will go well. Hugs John
On Thursday, 1 April 2021, 12:08:46 BST, John Miller <johnmiller051118@...> wrote:
I'm deeply sorry to hear that Jude. Chris I received good treatment at Manchester's health unit, Bristol, Exeter & in the USA. There is just something deeply wrong with our local unit.
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I'm deeply sorry to hear that Jude. Chris I received good treatment at Manchester's health unit, Bristol, Exeter & in the USA. There is just something deeply wrong with our local unit.
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My sister in law was hit by a car recently. She was lucky to maintain her feet and didn’t go under but though physically she didn’t initially show injuries she obviously had head trauma and memory problems and ptsd set in and getting very angry, or having panic attacks. Our solicitor is handling things and got her a good psychologist. Driver had criminal record. All on cctv. Police immediately helpful and booked a consult with a counsellor. Different system down here.
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On 1 Apr 2021, at 7:15 pm, Purler <susan.platter@...> wrote:
? It has always been a bit of a Cinderella, shamefully. Best Susan On 1 Apr 2021, at 08:07, zuiko < ftog@...> wrote: That is very disappointing, John. ?Mental Health provision doesn’t sound very good.
Chris
Sorry folks, but every interaction I've had with my local mental health hospital as made my mental health worse. I will not go there again
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It has always been a bit of a Cinderella, shamefully. Best
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On 1 Apr 2021, at 08:07, zuiko < ftog@...> wrote: That is very disappointing, John. ?Mental Health provision doesn’t sound very good.
Chris
Sorry folks, but every interaction I've had with my local mental health hospital as made my mental health worse. I will not go there again
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That is very disappointing, John. ?Mental Health provision doesn’t sound very good.
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Sorry folks, but every interaction I've had with my local mental health hospital as made my mental health worse. I will not go there again
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