Well guys n gals I found my issue at last!
The coax i was useing is (ok) if I'm using a tuner but horrible if running straight through. I was getting super high swr.
Today I remembered I had a string of RG8U I bought off a guy put ends on it and a ferrite bead near the antenna and a 6 wind choke back by the nano and BOOM working like a champ!
The reflected was so high I couldn't even get a decent reading! ? so at least I know what I need to do now!
Thanks EVERYONE that gave advice. I had a feeling after enuf trial n error something would give!