Thanks everyone for the feedback, and sorry for the vagueness.? We were doing online public school for first four years so he was tested back then. I tested at home three years ago but didn't even discuss any results. Realized around that time (11 - 12 years old) that my son cannot learn that way, and have been allowing him to follow his interests.
Truthfully, I am having doubts based upon my husband not being completely on board. Yes, it's myself and my husband who obviously need more deschooling. It's frightening how deep that conditioning goes, and how I allow my extended family to cause these doubts to arise. I will continue to read more here, and appreciate Sandra referring to the older links.
Thanks for the support and encouragement!
Still learning,
Karen